For this one, it’s almost impossible for me to comprehend… Other people have a different way of thinking from me. Yeah, this applies not only to me, but to almost everyone, because everyone’s way of thinking is different. And then talking “wrongly” likely leads to conflict and misunderstandings. It depends on who. And also the generation. And also the personality.
But really, if there is a need to converse, no matter how hard I try, the other person also has to adapt somewhat to me. This is the part where quite a few people give up (there are many other “more normal” people!), so it basically leads to a limited number of friends for me, I would say. This is the reality of it. Unfortunately, many people often say that the responsibility is on me to adapt to a near-impossible standard of “similar to other people”/Normal/Societal <- this is too vague, not others adapting to speak in a way I would understand and listen to the way I speak… so it leads to such problems as self-doubt. A shame indeed.